Also.... the summer is approaching quickly and I am wondering what people do in the situation where you are on the verge of separating and friends and family still think you are together. I am starting to have to make excuses for why my hubby is absent from family gatherings and that sort of thing. My dad had a bbq on the weekend and my husband stayed home. I told my family he had too much work to do around the house that he couldn't make it. I do not feel like telling any friends or family what is going on with my marriage (unless something permanent happens like he moves out). At the same time, people are going to start to wonder why he is not coming along with me anymore.
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.
