IF you W is MLC, you will not get this, in my experience. My W had soooo many reasons to be rid of me, the majority didn't make sense, at all. Was it as reason? In her my, yes...perfectly valid. In a world without MLC, most likely not, it could be worked through.
The only place to seek sanity validation is within YOU and maybe a few trusted others. So, was it a "sane" reason for her to want to end the M? In her world, at that moment, probably...so it was valid for HER.
I found a very helpful little book called "The Four Agreements"...check it out, helps a lot with perspective and fits right in with the philosophy here.
Quote:
“The Four Agreements”…
Be impeccable with your word. Don’t take anything personally. Don’t make assumptions. Always do your best.
Hope that helps some... T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
