JP , yes same roof same bed. I can detach with her coldness etc but when it comes to cheating that's a boundary being crossed. My boundary is NC with OM while we live together. So we have to separate. I can't deal with that, she's free to go on her path and I'm going on mine being a single dad...that's my path.
It's really for my sanity. I know myself and I'm done with the words with OM and I'm ready to strike, so I have to remove myself in this picture. It won't be pretty if I go face to face with OM. I have to diffuse these evil thoughts for my kids' sake.
Anyway I want the gift of time so I can process what I feel without my W just me and the kids. I'm pushing separation this weekend.
Newman
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.
