Hi Jax, just wanted to wish you the best! I, too, am in a similar situation. A few months ago I found out my husband has not loved me for 'years' and has been 'playing along'. Right now we are living in the same house, basically as room-mates, in the same "limbo" everyone on the forum has been mentioning. I have such worry that he is biding his time living in the house only to figure things out financially, and that we are just delaying the inevitable.
So now for us, I guess it is all about 'GAL', staying positive, keeping busy, and trying to not take anything negative they say personally. Good luck with everything, I am here for support if you need it! Have a good day.
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.