Is there light at the end of the tunnel Part 1?

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6/6 sitting outside again W asks about her moving out and how I am limiting her choices. I said that I am not standing in her way of moving out and that I support her. Told her how proud of her I am for getting the beach property she got and she seemed surprised of that. Also, how my supporting her decision does not mean I should allow myself to be financially insecure. I told her I am willing to work with her. Her plan was for us to buy another house together and she would live in there. It had to have a backyard. So I think the reality synced in and was talking about a 1 bed room apt close by for 6 months or a year. She continued to say how I am limiting her but I calmly explained my position. I stated how it would be convenient if she moves close by for S but not to make my wishes the reason she is picking a place and that it is a place she wants. She said she doesn’t want a crappy place where she will hate me every time she is there. I did not like that statement as in it makes it my fault for her moving out. I do see my part in this and I can see how she sees it that way. IC believes that W tries to guilt me into things a lot and that I am starting to see more clearly now and that I have been doing things not out of guilt. I agree and feel it is a good change I am seeing within myself.