Well this chit hit the fan again. Yep, a little over 30 days since the known EA and the cycle repeats again. Yep she was back in the streets in her car talking to OM Where she could've been in with my kids.
I simply sent her a text "if you can't stop disrespecting us we need to separate". Her response "yes we're separating, I will file for D".
I didn't reply, I got home and just said "I can't do this anymore lets talk with the kids".
We did and we told them the plan for separation. D18 is in tears right now. I just wanna say to my kids--IM SO SORRY MY BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN. We assured them was none of these are their fault and we love them so much.
I'm not made for this, I can't go on while my W continue to cheat on me...every part of my body rejects this notion! Enough is enough I had it.
Newman, I feel for you.
I really think you need to go dark if you can. You need to look after yourself and kids.
Your all under the same roof I think? That is really hard for everyone as I remember before my W left we couldn't even talk, as our 15 year old would freak out thinking we were going to end up fighting. The kids see everything.
Try not to react on you emotions. Try to detach and focus on you and the kids.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
