Well, Myrrh,

Take a deep breath and relax. Look at it from another POV...

What if your H's car broke down on his way home at 3 am and he was angry because your sleep schedule wasn't the same? He called you because you are the one person he knows who will help him, despite everything, and he starts his convo yelling, "You lazy woman, get up and help me! I'm so frustrated!"

Your reply would probably be less than nice or cooperative.

Now do you see how that might be perceived?

Call him and ask if he can help you out. If not, do you have a friend who is awake and willing to offer help?

I know you'll choose wisely, Luke Skywalker.

Hugs,

Bets


"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."

Albert Einstein