SP - That's so well put!

...and if anybody needs another reason for why we validate and do not argue you got it there!

As long as we argue their decisions we confirm their decisions. We increase their guilt. We push them away because we seem less understanding and caring.
When we validate their feelings we don’t!

People will follow those who:


Don’t argue – validate!

Me:44 W:43
D7, D5 (S11 from other R)

T: 8y - not M
ILYB: 8. Mar 2013
W moved: 1. Aug 2013
LRT: 20. Aug 2013
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Do or do not – there’s no try.