wife hardends heart

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my kids are 3 & 4 years old. they are really playful. they really like to do everything. can't seemed to put my finger on which really interest them more.
my wife had some guests over yesterday night. she acted like its every other day even though we've just had legal meeting in the afternoon. we didn't talk much nor had any serious discussion regarding our future on our way back home.
my wife won't be moving out though. It's all up to me to take up that option.
I think we need to have serious discussion over finances. As of now, we pay our bills and everything else collectively.
Back to the guests, i thought as host i should participate and joined in their conversation, mostly nodding. Previously i would be doing my own thing. Don't know if my wife wants me there though.