Left Behind Husband on the Left Coast II

[MrBond]

Not at all. I get it that you're hurting. I get it that you are feeling depressed. We all have been through that. I'll do you one better when I say that my W's former OM came to my working place to get me fired and arrested for some BS charge because I caught him with his pants down.

I get all that.

However, there comes a time when you stop feeling sorry for yourself and truly take responsibility by understanding that the situation is half your fault. You get strength from that because you know that it's also in your power to turn things around.

I'm not here to "look good". I'm here to help people save their marriages and themselves. Introspection on your part doesn't do any good when the "voices in your head" are turning you into an @$$.