Well, pretty good, but I could be dressing better. As I gained weight, I kept my old, slim clothes (classic stylish but not trendy stuff) and didn't buy much in the way new clothes. I was famous for wearing a plain black t-shirt most of the time. (In the futile hopes of looking slimmer.)
Now I fit back into my slim clothes (and since they are classic, they don't look dated) and am actually starting to need another set smaller. I'm not spending too much until I hit my ideal weight (another 20-25 pounds), but I have bought new shorts that fit well and new shoes.
If I ever see her again outside of court, I plan on wearing a shirt that fits well that isn't black.
Once I'm at my ideal weight, I'll be buying a decent amount of nice clothes.
Go ahead and start rebuilding your wardrobe with a new hairstyle. Take it as a new you. Don't wait for it to be an opportunity with your W. Take it as a way to celebrate YOU.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
Im sure anniversary's suck.I know im not looking forward to mine
Did you buy yourself something nice??? Dinner perhaps?
You ready for a 5k? what are you down too weight wise???
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
I took a Xanax, watched Star Trek, and went to bed early. LOL.
Down to 205 right now. Hit a wall on the C25K thing. I think it's because I'm eating at a 1000 calorie deficit to lose two pounds a week, and that only leaves me about ~1350 calories to eat. Once I hit 200, I'm going to switch to a 500 calorie deficit and try the C25K again. Still weightlifting religiously. Wearing 34" pants and size L shirts, been getting rid of all sorts of clothes lately.
Nothing new on the D front. We have a status hearing later this month. My L said I don't need to be there, so I'm not going. It's my way of having a little bit of control, I guess.
Felt a lot of anger yesterday and today at the STBX for this. I own all this mistakes that led to the BD, but the D is on her. She's the one who chose this, she's the one who refused to be grown-up about this, the one who made it ugly. If this is so easy for her, then she's not the person I fell in love with and who needs her anyway?
I've done more introspection than you will ever know, and if you had read my posts you would know that. You seem content to sit in judgment over the rest of us while tossing out the occasional bon mot to make yourself look good instead of truly engaging with others.
