BKS, I think you hit the nail on the head when you say they are withdrawing more. I think at times the WAS hates knowing that we have made changes, for the positive. I think their expectation of, in my case, trying to help me before the BD (antidepressants, psychologist, offereing the unit for me to move back to the city and live in) is then ruined, so the only way for them is to keep back pedalling. I think it is very fair to say that the WAS hasn't done the necessary changes to improve themselves, thinking and believing that we were the problem in their life. Yes we were part of the problem, but 50/50. With regards to what you are doing. Keep doing it. Visit the MC for you, GAL, 180's and improve yourself. Detaching like everything else gets easier and easier. Remember it's a marathon not a sprint. Boy I really love that line.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
