Snodderly, I don't understand how sitting at a table with approx 10 women can help. The leader asks 4 questions... each one answers or passes. Questions that really have NOTHING to do with co-d. This takes a full hour to answer, then its coffee social time.
Your first 3 statments are exactly what is said at the beginning of our group. Question #1 is "have you started your moral list yet?" Question #2 "what is stopping you from writing your moral list?" Question #3 is "does anyone have any victories to celebrate" Question #4 "does anyone have anything you would like us to pray for"
I sit and listen to these women, who share some of their hurts and other struggles with eating disorders, abuse, depression, procrastination, co-d (very little).
PON ~ please tell me what happens at your meeting? What kind of support are you getting?
I wonder if I would do better in a Divorce Group ~ again, offered on Thursdays at the church. Both your comments would be appreciated, as well as any others who went to a Divorce group. (UGH, the thought of accepting to be in that group).
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
