Glad to hear that things look positive. Take care of everyone as best as possible...most importantly take care of you dear.
BombOctober 2012- OW 11/28/12 -H still denies Separated 11/29/12 Own place 12/12/12 Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13 Oct 2013 - I knew I was done Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life
Wonderful news, thanks for letting us know! Will ypu be able to go to the hospital?
No, they are all in Canada and I don't have a passport. Plus, its about 10 hours away, and somebody has to go to work lol.
Thanks URWorthy. Funny thing is, I really honestly had absolutely no expectations when I sent that text. I debated about it for a few minutes, because I didn't want H to see it as pursuit. But I decided it was ok because it had nothing to do with us. And I thought H could use a pat on the back because what he is/was doing is so terribly hard. When he texted back, before I looked at the phone I flipped a mental coin "Will he just have said "ok", or would it be "ty" " I settled on "ok" and was impressed to find "Thank you for that." Nice when gestures are taken as intended!
BRNR, you know what? I am tired!! The only job I had regarding MIL was to worry, and I think I did that in spades lol. So now I'm worn out.
Thanks again to everyone who has checked in.
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
I'm glad your MIL came through the surgery w/flying colors. Now, it's on to recovery. I hope she is feeling better soon. I hope your h and FIL rested better last night now that she came through the surgery.
Please take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
I am tired!! The only job I had regarding MIL was to worry, and I think I did that in spades lol. So now I'm worn out.
mizjjd, do take care of yourself!
Thanks for your special little note to me although I took no offense.
I'm glad to hear things have gone well so far. Keep us updated on her progress and how H and FIL are handling things.
H always has the opportunity to have a winning streak later at the casino. If only he realized he has a winning streak in life with YOU on his side!!!
Hugs, rH
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway
Saw a rainbow on the way home yesterday, this morning the sun is shining and I can hear a bird singing. Lol. Hopefully all harbingers of the day.
Yes, she's off to recovery. As I understand it, she should have 7 - 14 days in the hospital.
H should be back this evening, he may return to his folks when MIL is released. I expect him to be exhausted.
I have to go to court this morning. Sigh. Its about D18's car - the one that got totaled in a hit and run, what 2 months ago? As I was the registered owner I am a "witness" for the city in its suit of "leaving the scene of an accident." Nevermind that I didn't drive the car and was not present at the accident. I was subpoenaed so off I go.
Thank everyone again for your kindness, consideration, attention and concern.
Ya'll know how to make a gal feel not-alone!! (I can say ya'll, I lived in the south for years!! )
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
That is the craziest thing I've ever heard about going to court as a witness. Maybe it's because you are the owner and they need you to verify this in court. Good luck!
I'm glad your h is returning home this evening. I'm sure's emotionally and physicall exhausted. It's a lot to take in when a parent has to have surgery and not knowing what the outcome would be until after the surgery. I do hope he's okay.
Enjoy the rest of your day.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
"Saw a rainbow on the way home yesterday, this morning the sun is shining and I can hear a bird singing. Lol. Hopefully all harbingers of the day."
Hey Mz. Jay (my mom was from North Carolina, so I know about hey, ya'll, and especially bless your heart LOL!)
What wonderful harbingers! And you must be feeling more positive or you wouldn't have even noticed them!
I hope this event will be a catalyst for change in your H's life, both in his relationship with his folks AND with you. I really think reaching out to him in that text you sent will make a big difference! Please keep us updated!
Good luck in court today! How dumb that you're expected to testify about an event you did not witness. Sometimes I despair over our legal sustem, especially torts. When people ask my profession, I always tell them I'm a nurse
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