BKS

That does sound a lot like my story.Sounds like your doing better at 180's than me.If you read my earlier post she caught me bad mouthing her to my two teenage sons.She really let me have it.Said she now hates me for trying to turn kids against her.I apologized to her and that only made her more angry.The only thing that made her stop her angry texting was when I said I was ashamed for what I did and I truly am.She thinks I say things just to be mean.I don't, it is just stuff that comes out when I get upset.Bad thing is you can't take some things back.I have pretty much made up my mind that the D is going to happen.I just want to get thru it without so much blaming and saying mean things to each other.She has moved in with a friend but keeps telling me to move.I would like to move.But of course attorney says to stay at home with kids.To me right now the boys are the most important thing.Both teenagers in high school.We all know it is very hard to be a kid now days.Anyway good luck to you BKS.If only we could all learn these lessons before it is to late.