Originally Posted By: LindaM
Wonderful news, thanks for letting us know! Will ypu be able to go to the hospital?


No, they are all in Canada and I don't have a passport. Plus, its about 10 hours away, and somebody has to go to work lol.

Thanks URWorthy. Funny thing is, I really honestly had absolutely no expectations when I sent that text. I debated about it for a few minutes, because I didn't want H to see it as pursuit. But I decided it was ok because it had nothing to do with us. And I thought H could use a pat on the back because what he is/was doing is so terribly hard. When he texted back, before I looked at the phone I flipped a mental coin "Will he just have said "ok", or would it be "ty" " I settled on "ok" and was impressed to find "Thank you for that." Nice when gestures are taken as intended!

BRNR, you know what? I am tired!! The only job I had regarding MIL was to worry, and I think I did that in spades lol. So now I'm worn out.

Thanks again to everyone who has checked in.

smile


Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.