First of all, relax and calm down.

Read DR or DB asap. It's cheaper than counseling.

Right now can you give us a timeline and a little more detail of your marital history? For your W to feel anger towards your mom and sister, it seems a little odd.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER