Thanks for sharing your story. Over the past couple of years I have tried to plan to move things forward, but there always seemed to be some reason not to. Family event, kids trip or school issue. I guess the bottomline is that there is no best time to do this.
I agree with your position on the EA. Part of my frustration is that my wife continues to work with the other man and has expressed no interest in finding another job. If she had any interest in restablishing our marriage, to me the first thing she would have sone is changed jobs.
She seems incapable of making a decision, so I feel that I have to make it for her. I am not going to sit by any longer and wait for her to figure out when this will end. Better to be in control of my own life and destiny instead of hanging by a thread.
Good luck with your situation. Hope things work out for you.
