Funny enough, first day back at work after a long weekend holiday, walk into the Admin office and the secretary goes "wow, you have one big smile today". Just feels like a dark cloud has been lifted. I still accept baby steps, just in a better space right now. Even managed to talk to the friend from back home (the one I didn't know whether he relayed info to the W or not) and spend an hour talking about everything except the W. If the subject came up and just kept saying I don't need to talk about it. Could do better, but still happy with the way I handled it.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
