Thanks for your input, AnotherStander. It does look like cake-eating, doesn't it? Sigh...

I guess the best case scenario: He's confused. He's genuine in wanting to give T a shot after our talk on 5 May. Why else would he contribute to our joint account again (he didn't tell me; I checked. It was a large sum). But he doesn't want to give up OW in case our M doesn't work out.

And the worst case scenario: He has been "going through the motions", waiting for me to accept the fact that he's already gone.

But here's the twist to the story: OW is out of the picture now (next post).