Just wanted to say that this is a great community of smart, reasoned, wise people. I have been on read only for a day or so and have been checking out some of the threads. Sad, but at the same time enlightening and uplifting. So much positivity in such bad times. I am hopeful of getting that same kind of feedback and uplift.

Saying hi and introducing myself. My story will follow shortly.

Me 47 W 44
T 17 years, M 15 years
D13, D10
March 2013 -- broke a trust/cheated
late May 2013 -- W spoke of separation for first time
June 2013 -- began reading DB