I just thought that because he isnt having an A now, and hasn't from the beginning...that by the time one happens, it might be the THRILL he is seeking and the beginning of a REAL relationship. One that has nothing to do with MLC anymore.
My friend invited me to go to her house in Florida for a week, to spend with her husband, neices, and another friend of ours and her son,. I am struggling how to go. I want to and I dont.
I will read rH's sitch again, and I have done ALOT of work for myself. The co-d meetings however dont seem to apply. I get ALOT more out of reading the book.
Just today, I didn't reach out and "fix" my h... I sat and listened. (180)
H and I just discussed excluding me from his Moms bday. It wasnt necessarily intentional, just last minute and not a big deal. However he did say that it wouldnt have been awkward if I was there. He proceeded to say how he wants to be comfy around everyone, if he ever ran into my parents. He would sit or say hi with them. But, feels they are avoiding him.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
