"Got home yesterday. W is angry, she doesn't want to talk about anything until therapy, then she will tell me what's on her mind. I'm prepared for the worst."
Good luck with that.
"What can I say to her?"
You listen. After she talks, then tell her your PLAN. What is your plan?
"The reason I couldn't talk to her earlier was because she refuses to talk to me without a third party,"
Because she doesn't TRUST you. And you never told her a complete plan that she would be comfortable with. You just moved in thinking that after a couple weeks of things being good, that things would just be positive.
"so I had to make the decision without her knowledge and let her know after."
No you didn't have to. You didn't even tell her. The "without her knowledge" is a big anti trust issue. Why would she even bother to trust you if you're going to continue to do what you want? Plus now that you're in the home again, what guarantee does she has that you're not going to spaz out again?
"I will ask her to give it a try, I will stay out of her way, GAL as much as possible and give her as much time and space as possible. Not sure what else I could say or do? Any suggestions?"
My suggestion is to stop being so selfish. You "asking" her to give it a try when she's told you time and time and time again she didn't want to is just more of the same. You have to start making her trust you again.
Is there anyone else you can room with?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
