For your question about being intimate with your W, that really depends on several things.

If there is an EA/PA. What being intimate was like in your marriage. How it would emotionally effect you. If it was driven by you or your W.

M46,W41
D16,D18
M22,T25
BD 11/12
W moved out 01/13
Piecing 10/13
Divorced 01/15
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can."
UrWorthy