i wonder if alanon would be better for me?? the co-d group doesn't offer suggestions, they just listen. What good does that do?

its chuch based, so I am going tonight to give to higher powers.

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)