Patience is def the hardest this for me as I'm sure it is with most people in the same situation. I'm a fixer, always have been. You have an issue? Lets fix it right now. I understand that this is not an overnight fix, if it ever is fixed, and I hear you when you say this is for fixing me and it may only be used for good in my next relationship. But I pray 100 times a day that god puts my family back together and stronger than ever. I have to remind myself she only told me about wanting to leave on April 1st and only moved out on May 4th. So only been gone just over a month. Part of her issue with me over the years was being too available, so distancing myself and refraining from texting her as I do should be a def change for her. I appreciate all the advice and support.
M:33 W:32 Married:8 Together:10 S:5,4 and 8 months BD: 4/1/13 W move out day: 5/4/13 ILYBNINWY,WAS. No talk of wanting to save relationship
