What great posts, T^2, you really lifted my spirits! I am so glad to hear you had a nice weekend with your sons, and that your W seems relaxed and happy. And I'm glad that her older friend who deals with the fallout D has on kids has her re-thinking things a bit.

Did she say why she wanted to read her old emails and list of things you feel that you have in common? Maybe wanting to check her current feelings against her former ones? Or something she wants to understand about herself before she starts with an IC?

Either way, I'm sure it is all due to your new happy attitude and the support you have shown her. It must be nice for her to be able to feel that you love her unconditionally. You are an inspiration to us all!