Thank you one and all for posting to me.

It means so very much, and when I have time later I will thank each of you individually.

Just wanted to update.

MIL has gone into surgery. H said she looked nervous, and FIL looked scared too. Surgery may be over @ 5:30.

FIL is not following through with nap strategy but is keeping vigil with H. I am glad for that.

My heart's in my stomach.

Thank you again for stopping by. smile You all are my extended family.

Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.