So W gave me the hugest smile and "great job" after the funeral. She didn't go to the gravesite or the wake.

I am off this Thursday. My "normal" thing has been to ask her to get together.

We don't get anything done when we are together. I have mixed emotions about trying this week.

I want the M to survive. Don't really have anything to say to her that I haven't said before, to seemingly deaf ears.

To do those of you who are familiar with my story...wait her out? I think the term is "go dark"?

What I've done so far certainly doesn't seem to have helped.

Me 46 W 43
S 21 D 18 S 17
M 22 yrs
Discovered OM 9/10/12
W moved to sister's 9/15/12
W moved to OM 9/27/12
Tried to DB until 7/13
W filed 10/7/13. Did not serve.
I counter filed 12/2/13.