So W gave me the hugest smile and "great job" after the funeral. She didn't go to the gravesite or the wake.
I am off this Thursday. My "normal" thing has been to ask her to get together.
We don't get anything done when we are together. I have mixed emotions about trying this week.
I want the M to survive. Don't really have anything to say to her that I haven't said before, to seemingly deaf ears.
To do those of you who are familiar with my story...wait her out? I think the term is "go dark"?
What I've done so far certainly doesn't seem to have helped.
Me 46 W 43 S 21 D 18 S 17 M 22 yrs Discovered OM 9/10/12 W moved to sister's 9/15/12 W moved to OM 9/27/12 Tried to DB until 7/13 W filed 10/7/13. Did not serve. I counter filed 12/2/13.
Haven't seen or heard from W since last post on 6/10. Texted her about my gmother's funeral date (tomorrow).
I havent been "obsessing" as much in the three or so weeks since then, at least not to the point of crying.
I do spend a lot of time PO'd. Very much so.
My C has been away 3 weeks. About to resume visits this afternoon.
My thoughts, when I am calm, have been that only God can save this marriage, and its none of my business right now. Stay out of it.
I happened to see her a little while ago, she acted very distant. Said we could get together on any of her days off.
I havent been contacting her because of my anger, and don't want to say anything in anger that will harm my chances.
I get lonely then PO'd.
Me 46 W 43 S 21 D 18 S 17 M 22 yrs Discovered OM 9/10/12 W moved to sister's 9/15/12 W moved to OM 9/27/12 Tried to DB until 7/13 W filed 10/7/13. Did not serve. I counter filed 12/2/13.
