Crimsion, reading your sitch with interest. I think this is a momentary set-back and agree with AS. Don't put too much pressure on the W. Keep up the PMA, GAL, and DB-ing.
My W has also come back from the brink of talking separation/divorce, in my case she never moved out. But she is still in MLC and not fully committed to marriage. We have our ups/downs. In my case, I see a long road of building up a new and hopefully better relationship. I would suggest not to rush things and take it slow and let your W set the pace.
