To add to my 180s (before I forget)

~do not follow hubby around the house
~stop questioning about his whereabouts
~do not point out good points in our marriage
~don't schedule dates or talk about future
~be more scarce on words
~no gifts
~not be overly enthusiastic
~listen to him rather than disputing what he has said
~*be more INDEPENDANT!!


M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.