I'll try to stick to validation - but in the midst of things falling apart sometimes it feels like validating is just giving up on everything. Academically, I know better - but it just feels that way.
It definitely feels that way at times. I'm not vet, but reading through your sitch, your W knows you want the M to work. I don't think validating is going to change her thoughts on that. She will continue to say things that will confuse you because she is confused. There will be good days and bad days. Try to not let the good days and setbacks make you lose your focus. I know its hard. You've reached a point many of us hope to be someday. Hang in there!
M:34 W:36 M:10 T:15 D:9 S:5 BD:12/12 Worked on the M for 6 mo before W saying it was over 5/13.
