Hi Thank You all for your responses yes Snodderly..It seems the destruction continues in his case He has not hit the Bottom yet...6 plus years into this I was surprised the FIL apologized for how XH left kids
BM ,BRNR, KML I think you guys are right..they are just putting it together and yes I know for a fact he spewed about me
I got the sense that they were desperate and angry at him..and maybe thought I would still be mad enough and get involved to save them or get him for back support? But I think you are right Beatrice.. they are a weird bunch so who really knows
Ma Ma I never spoke to her family ever be4 one time she called me several years ago and I got off phone ..told her we could not talk ,,,ever
XH Mother told me before she died,,her family was addicted to prescriptions xh /didn't know his mom passed according to XH FIL..they wanted me to tell his mom too where he was,,
I just wanted to hear he was finally getting things together and maybe getting clean and sober again He had 20plus years of sobriety be4 crises
thanks Peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow