Hi
Thank You all for your responses
yes Snodderly..It seems the destruction continues in his case
He has not hit the Bottom yet...6 plus years into this
I was surprised the FIL apologized for how XH left kids


BM ,BRNR, KML
I think you guys are right..they are just putting it together
and yes I know for a fact he spewed about me



I got the sense that they were desperate and angry at him..and maybe thought I would still be mad enough and get involved to save them or get him for back support?
But I think you are right Beatrice.. they are a weird bunch so who really knows

Ma Ma
I never spoke to her family ever be4
one time she called me several years ago and I got off phone ..told her we could not talk ,,,ever

XH Mother told me before she died,,her family was addicted to prescriptions
xh /didn't know his mom passed according to XH FIL..they wanted me to tell his mom too where he was,,

I just wanted to hear he was finally getting things together and maybe getting clean and sober again
He had 20plus years of sobriety be4 crises

thanks
Peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow