I know how hard it is to deal with sick parents and without being a bit gender-biased, I do think that men take things harder than women. Maybe it is because many are not comfortable showing their emotions and women can cry and get comfort in ways that they cannot.
The text exchange between you and your H was beautiful. Enjoy the moment, don't worry if it means anything. It was your compassion that touched him.
You have always impressed me, my friend. Your willingness to look beyond the casino v. parents debate showed true insight. It seems your H also realized how lucky he was!
My thoughts are with you and your family. Take care!
