Grizz, Hang in there buddy. You are a strong person. Continue to work on yourself and be the best Grizz you can be. I do think this is a positive if you look at it that way. I can honestly say that if we didn't separate and be apart that my W and I would be nowhere close to where we are right now. Space will give her chance to see that it's not so rosy without you. Hang in there. All the best
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it