I did tell him that from now on not to call her " his girlfriend" in front of me. H seemed shocked when I said that. I said if he was going to say that then I got to say the junkie whore.
I think it is fine to set a boundary like this and be firm but not nasty about it. Tell him that you will not discuss the OW with him.
Originally Posted By: Limbowife
I know,I know that was the wrong thing to say but it came out. I am tired of feeling so sad,abandoned, and lonely. What if I am not able to do what I want and stand??? What if I am just too weak to do it?? Thanks for listening to me ramble. I hate it that I love him so much...I don't think I deserve to be treated like this but it appears that it's fine with H.
I think we all feel like this. Hang in there. And no you don't deserve to be treated like that, and one day he may feel guilty for treating you like this, but it is not something to count on -- he may never apologize. I would love for my W to apologize for some of the suff she did and said, but I doubt she ever will. I wonder if she even recalls what she said sometimes?
