I think you got this one backwards. Don't ask to go to things with him or force him into situations where he needs to lie or make excuses to you. If he reaches out to you and offers something, it's okay to do it.
M38,H39 M:16Y BD:8/12 OWDB:11/12 S:11/12-5/13 "Temp" home:6/13 OW dropped:9/13 "I love you":12/13 H ring on:2/14 Depression back:5/15 "I'm done:" 7/15 H moved out: 3/16 H moved back: 12/16 Working on us: 3/17
