Being 'mysterious' seems to be working especially well.. does anyone have any ideas for that? For example, I changed my profile picture on FB to a nice self portrait of my self, done up with make-up, and he kept questioning me about it, where it was taken, if I had new lipstick, etc.

I am usually quite the open book, telling him of my whereabouts and every single thing that happens during the day. Lately I have been keeping busy and being more vague with the details of my day, and he has started asking me more questions out of curiosity. So he is becoming a bit more curious, which is good, and he has even started following me around the house a bit, asking me for input on the basement, etc. I have tried to be less "available" for interactions with him, and that seems to be piquing his curiosity as usually I am available 24/7. Woo hoo!


M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.