I've been catching up on your sitch. My W and I are suppose to separate next week. Like you said, it will be surreal when it happens. Hang in there and I'll continue to follow your sitch for inspiration.
M:34 W:36 M:10 T:15 D:9 S:5 BD:12/12 Worked on the M for 6 mo before W saying it was over 5/13.