Wow, mizjjd, I am amazed at your strength and happy that you and H could exchange these texts of important communication during this terribly difficult time.
Do let us know how it goes.
I'm glad you have a clear head about you. Somehow, this event could be an opportunity for your H to face his issues and be a mature man.
I've got you and your family in my heart today.
Hugs, rH
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway