Thank you so much. It helps to know there are others who... well that there are others.
Her name is Barbara.
My heart is full to bursting this morning with the MIL sitch.
I am glad you found some comfort in what I wrote Linda. Maybe your H, like mine, has more than his fair share of child in him. We all have limitations, things it seems we just weren't constructed to handle. Death is definitely on my H's short list.
And FIL has NOT been the ideal role model - don't know if you read my posts from when H was up there before taking care of them. How FIL went on at length about what an 4sshole he'd been to MIL, how many affairs he'd had. When H told me about this I wanted so badly to ask him how it felt to hear that. But I didn't feel that would be kind.
Thank you again for your kind words Notlikingthis and Linda. The first thing I did this morning was check here.
H has texted that the surgeon will be meeting with MIL at 8:15, so we should know the surgery time soon.
I thank everyone for reading and ask please for continued prayers.
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
