" I just keep thinking what if he doesn't wake up from this MLC nightmare?? Then what...and I know how much it makes H crazy that I call her the JW so I will just scream it in my head- not out loud to him. I just wish he could hear himself and hear how insane he sounds. I keep thinking when JW realizes she has went thru all his money she will move on. Or that she will relapse. Is that awful for me to think that?? Because he has nothing left to sell to get her more rehab money. H had said that just because I know now that he WILL NOT stop helping her out. All I said was don't you think your children should come before her?? So I have some hope now that this thing will run it's course between them. Thanks from the bott on of my heart for being here and listening to the ramblings of a big whiny crybaby."
First, you are neither whiny nor a crybaby, Limbo. If you want to see a crybaby, just wait to see how your H acts when the JW drops him like a lot potato when she realizes she cannot get any more money from him. Ha! I can't wait!
You know this will happen eventually. I know it about my sitch too, that the Russian Tramp will drop my H when she realizes he has zero chance of getting her a green card. But I think your H is just honestly deluded by the hope he can rescue the Junkie. But my H knows he cannot give the Tramp what she wants, he is the one who told ME. He is just leading her on. Not nice
Snodderly rocks, doesn't she? I will follow her advice also, and will make all my disparaging remarks about the Tramp to myself, not aloud to my H. And boy oh boy, I have a LOT of nasty things to say about her.
Hang in there! You cannot see it, but you are doing great!
