Well, I am confused and shocked by this move, I think she is testing and seeing my reaction, I can't be fooled again, she need to own up to her part, I can't be taking this bull all the time. she keeps complaining that I started the divorce process in reality she always was the first to talk and even send papers to me for the first time. I filed it even before she sent me papers for mediation but she insisted that it would be a way to get divorce. I never served her, waited for things to clear, but she just sent me paper to my work address. I think she is coming to realization or I don't know what she is smoking, she is indecisive and keeps changing he decisions like night and day. I need her to put every thing infront on table before even thinking of any reconciliation or any kind of retrieval.


M - 39W- 38
M - 4 yr,Date-4 mths
Son - 2 yr day care
S - 9/12
Divorced- 10/10/13
Visits with son other week
Working on myself & son,co-parent,change,assertive,alpha/beta, entrepeurneur,care,heal,centered