I'm sorry but I can't find it. If I recall the article correctly it wasn't conclusively yes or no. It was maybe, if it works for you. If you don't have "expectations" that it has emotional meaning because it might not, at least for both partners. Also, more likely NOT the best idea if there is infidelity.
So for now, if it doesn't make you feel somehow cheapened, or give you false hope, and you feel better for it then continue. The hugs and kisses, from my understanding, not so much of a good idea. You need to take a step back.
Have a good night.
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
