I am also a little bit confused, I know we are supposed to be "detaching", does that mean no intimacy/affection?? I feel if we don't hug or kiss we will grow farther and farther apart. It doesn't seem to matter to him one way or another, should I still be doing that?


M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.