Are there any other books that people found really helpful?
As far as 180's... does anyone have any suggestions for me? This is our current situation: in the past I have been the one who was the 'initiator' of everything in our marriage and family, including planning dates, planning vacations, organizing children's events, household chores, and also usually the initiator of kisses/hugs/spending time together. So lately I have not planned any dates for us or mentioned the future. I have not kissed him or hugged him much in the past couple of weeks, and he does not seem to care either way. We have had sex a couple of times in the past few weeks.
Also, one of his concerns was that I "stress" too much about my employment, and regarding handling the children's disputes. My DB coach has recommended that I not bother him anymore with mentioning what is stressing me out, and to try to remain more positive.. so I have been doing that as a 180.
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.
