My world got turned upside down

[RosaLinda]

I love to write letters and emails to both my H and his Tramp, Limbo, but really regretted it the few times I actually sent one. I still write them incessantly -- begging, nasty, loving or cruel letters -- but don't send them. They make me feel a lot better! I wrote a doozy of an email to the Russian Tramp this morning. I wrote that I had been diagnosed with an STD, and advised her to get checked out. I said that I had not cheated on him, therefore she gave it to him or he's cheating on both of us. A pack of lies, and I'll never send it, but it cheered me up!!

Snooderly just gave me some great advice on dealing with my husband and the Tramp. I sent it to TVS, and will be equally helpful for you in dealing with the Sainted Junkie. 

"Your mlcer will wake up on his own time clock. There are a few that will wake up because of a precipitating event, but eventually, they will go back into mlc because their journey wasn't over. You see, once the crisis begins, it has to run it's full course or it will come back to haunt them again. We caution posters not to force an event or snatch them out of their crisis. Why? Because when they do re-enter MLC land, it will be far worse than the last time. It's better to leave them alone and allow them to bake up fully on their on time clock.

Most affairs will die a natural death if we leave them to it. The more you point out the things that Tart is doing, the more he will be inclined to protect her and want to be w/her."