That was awesome JP!! That should give you some serious motivation. You need to be the strong one and you can do it! I know how you feel about feeling like you are second choice. There is no need to feel that way. Don't make this just about you. I have had to swallow a big dose of humble pie. But it is giving my W and I chance to save out marriage. I don't know if we can save it, but I have always wanted the opportunity. That's what I have got and that's what you can have as well. Keep up the great momentum
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it