That was awesome JP!!
That should give you some serious motivation.
You need to be the strong one and you can do it!
I know how you feel about feeling like you are second choice.
There is no need to feel that way. Don't make this just about you.
I have had to swallow a big dose of humble pie. But it is giving my W and I chance to save out marriage.
I don't know if we can save it, but I have always wanted the opportunity. That's what I have got and that's what you can have as well.
Keep up the great momentum


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it