I have read DR and DB as well as Hold Me Tight and 5 Love languages. It seems my LLs are quality time, physical contact and gifts. His LL is acts of service so I have been trying to let him work on the basement.. Which is what he seems to be most interested in right now, and making him nice meals, etc.


M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.