I have read DR and DB as well as Hold Me Tight and 5 Love languages. It seems my LLs are quality time, physical contact and gifts. His LL is acts of service so I have been trying to let him work on the basement.. Which is what he seems to be most interested in right now, and making him nice meals, etc.
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.